If it works for her, great!

But it sounds WAY PROBLEMATIC TO ME:

"To me, true love is that you would hurt yourself before you would hurt your partner, you would do anything to make them happy, even at your own expense, there’s nothing selfish about true love."

Do ANYTHING to make them happy?

It's possible that I'm just reacting too literally to a sweeping generalization that wasn't meant to be taken literally—like, I can think of a million and six ways in which "anything" could go in a terrible direction—but... ag.